Steph.Addiction

Posted Wednesday, February 18, 2009 // 1 comments (+)

Alot of people have been asking whether they should go for a relationship at this age or not.

Some even got their heart broken because their parents rejected their relationships sigh..

Well,if you manage to handle both efficiently, WHY NOT?

And some of my friends had been asking the same question over and over again...Maybe they think they should start off a lil bit later..

I've came across with some people who just can't manage both efficiently.. Its normal if you miss your bf but if you miss him until you fail to study, fail to do your assignment, 24/7 has been daydreaming about him, then I suggest you better not get a bf now. Its so clear that you can't set your priority. At this stage if you were to let yourself fully into a relationship, and at the same time you failed to manage your studies, I'm sure you're gonna fail big time in your exams..

Handling a relationship aint easy.. You people will have lots of assignments piling up on your study table, and if you are an active member in some huge clubs or society, and if there are some important event coming up, you will be very busy for him too.. You have to allocate some time for him , to accompany him, maybe at night where both of you are relaxing, you guys can hang out on the phone, chat in MSN or even webcam with each other.. That will be more than enough..
A relationship does not require 24/7 companion, a lil bit, but not too much will be just nice~
But of course you can't totally neglect him too even if you are too busy. Sometimes just a short caring sms is enough to put a smile on her face :)

I don't know why some people will just miss the other half soooooooo badly until she can totally forget about her studies! -__-'' What are they thinking about ah??
When its time to concentrate, just concentrate. When its time to relax, just go relax lah~
If you can do this, then I don't see any problems in having a bf right now..

To me, if I've met the right one and the one that will give me this "special" feeling, I'll go for it.. =P
Even I'm just in my 1st year of studies, if I am positive that I can manage my relationship and studies at the same time, why not?? Meeting the right person aint easy, and if he's not available anymore you will start crying and regretting but then there's no point crying over the spilt milk anymore!..

Many people say that falling in love will make your results go worse. I beg to differ.. There are some cases, a guy that is totally lazy, has totally given up on his studies. Always drown himself in the world of games, does not give a damn on his homework and so on..And he met this girl that he loves alot, and the girl has high requirements in choosing for a bf, and he changed into a better person.. Sometimes, love can make wonders.. =)

If you are rejecting someone by saying "I wanna concentrate on my studies..."
That might be true to someone but to me its bullshit. You are not 10 or 11 already and you are already an independent person. Even if you are not, I'm sure you will have your own priorities right? Do you know how nice it feels when you are busy on work for the whole day, and during the silent night there's someone lending you ears to hear about your day? That's the best feeling ever man. And its called The College Life! ^.^

I've seen many despo in college searching high and low for the other half.Some even feel so desperate that they do not even know whether the person he chose suits him or not.. And sooner or later only you found out that she is not your piece of cake, and that time you have already hurt a girl's feelings.. So better open your eyes widely,think twice before you started falling in love. =)

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