Steph.Addiction

Posted Wednesday, April 15, 2009 // 2 comments (+)

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Sigh I'm tired of everyone getting emo over their relationships.

But sometimes its inevitable I know. because actually, the mindset between guys and girls differ alot.

I mean really ALOT.

Girls are born to think about other people's feelings. Other people's behavior, and why they do such things.

While boys are born to totally ignore it, they will only focus on big things, such as the whole process, never got INTO the process. Hence, they never understand what's with all the fuss made by women..

What I'm trying to say is, girls are more sensitive compared to guys in relationship problems.
And any other problems that are related to humans, feelings and so on.

Here is what I understand, there is NO SUCH THINGS as easy and simple relationship.

No boy, you cannot ask for that.

Girls are troublesome creatures, just deal with the fact.

They love guys who can read their mind, they love guys who actually care about their feelings without telling it all out. Its like, a Malay taxi driver, got chinese customers in his car, and he switched to chinese station immediately. That's sweet! and caring too.

What's the point if the boy is doing exactly as you told? What's the point of being happy because he actually did what he was told?

Ever heard of soul mate?? Soul mate are supposed to know what are each other thinking about without even speaking it out. But of course, it takes time to do that. Nobody can actually read other people's mind during their first meeting. So we girls have to bear with that.
Most of the time when you sensed a girl is not ok, and she still replied : '' I'm ok", and if you think that she's ok, then you're wrong. Haha seriously. You have to learn how to readdd and its not hardd!!! Some people learn it from a hard way. :(

The same thing I'm actually experiencing with one of my girl friends are, we have no idea whether the boy we like, like us or not. We have NO idea. I can't say he doesnt like. I cant say he likes too. So I asked him, and got my answer. But what's the point? Its like forcing him to say he likes me. wtf right? Damn potong steam... T.T I still pretend to be very happy after he said he likes me. T_T

My friend, saw the guy he likes online. She is hesitating whether wanna talk to him or not.
She refused to find him at last, and she was expecting that guy to talk to her,because it has been long since they last chat. But she waited and waited and waited, the guy still did not talk to her.
She came to me, and rant about it.She was emo seriously. She complained that their relationship has gone further and further apart. I understand lo, they're so far apart, the only thing that is bonding them is internet, handphones. Once they didn't talk to each other, she will feel lost. She doesnt know what is he doing right now, doesnt know whether he's happy or not.. and so on... Girls are born to care...

You know, girls really really love to talk to the guy they love. No matter how busy they were, I'm sure they will squeeze a lil bit of time to spend their time with their loved ones. This is very normal! So when you guys ignored about your girls, and you said you were being too busy, and even if that's the fact,then sorry lo. Girls will definitely have the right to be angry . Why can we still spend some time with you when we are busy, and you can't wor?? Even if you are busy, just try to talk to her, or even rant to her. sigh not only you will get busy you know. T_T

Boys just don't understand all these, and they often claimed that we're spoilt, we're not being reasonable. We just love to quarrel to worry this and that.. But its really the fact that our mind is thinking about all these since we're born. You can't change us. Even a lesbo or a tomboy will still think like that. And sometimes a lil bit sweet moves will be enough to make a girl happy. Be smart about it, and I'm sure lots of problems will be avoided. =)

Labels: Boys'Girls